they will not change and always deny and blame you for their problems. I am leaving the love of my life after 30 years of marriage. He still won’t admit he has a problem and blames our financial problems, family problems on me and the kids.
He said he wants nothing to do with me, the kids or grandkids after I leave.
He put his alcohol before all of us. He is not in the best health either. I hope for his sake after I am gone he gets help.
I am like all others. My spouse is a drinker and blames all her issues on me and I blame the alcohol. All her self esteam issues, decision making that results in large amounts of financial hardships. I myself drank for a long period of my life but quit a couple of years ago in hopes it would help her but in fact had the reverse effect. Got worse! Know sober myself, I see this in a different light and can’t stand it. The constant depression of her has mentally broken me down. The constant fighting over the littlist things have become very overwhelming. Blaming me for absolutly everything. Missing work due to her “not feeling loved” (hungover)The very low self esteam issues she blames me for. I truely don’t know what else to do at this point. I have moved out of my home after 15 yrs of marriage. Have 2 wonderful children that doesn’t deserve to go through this. I have turned so bitter that I now feel I’m part of the problem.
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they will not change and always deny and blame you for their problems. I am leaving the love of my life after 30 years of marriage. He still won’t admit he has a problem and blames our financial problems, family problems on me and the kids.
He said he wants nothing to do with me, the kids or grandkids after I leave.
He put his alcohol before all of us. He is not in the best health either. I hope for his sake after I am gone he gets help.
I am like all others. My spouse is a drinker and blames all her issues on me and I blame the alcohol. All her self esteam issues, decision making that results in large amounts of financial hardships. I myself drank for a long period of my life but quit a couple of years ago in hopes it would help her but in fact had the reverse effect. Got worse! Know sober myself, I see this in a different light and can’t stand it. The constant depression of her has mentally broken me down. The constant fighting over the littlist things have become very overwhelming. Blaming me for absolutly everything. Missing work due to her “not feeling loved” (hungover)The very low self esteam issues she blames me for. I truely don’t know what else to do at this point. I have moved out of my home after 15 yrs of marriage. Have 2 wonderful children that doesn’t deserve to go through this. I have turned so bitter that I now feel I’m part of the problem.